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Start the New Year Ready to Fly: Tackling Flight Anxiety in 2025

Another year has come and gone. Hello, 2025! As you reflected on last year, maybe there was some sadness about the opportunities to travel you missed out on.

You dream of hopping on a plane without a second thought, ready to see all that this world has to offer. But the fear is still there.

This year can be different. Let’s talk about how you can set yourself up for success in 2025, so fear doesn’t hold you back from living your life fully.


Understanding Flight Anxiety

If you’ve ever felt gripped by fears of turbulence, takeoff, or losing control while flying, you’re not alone. These fears are incredibly common—and, the good news is, they’re manageable.

But managing flight anxiety doesn’t mean waking up one day and simply being over it. It requires focused effort and intentional action. (And I know you’re not afraid of a little hard work!) The payoff—freedom to travel—will be worth it.

The key isn’t about “getting rid of” the fear; it’s about learning to face it with tools that make it easier. If you’re ready to stop letting fear dictate your desire to travel, now is the time to take action.


Practical Strategies to Build Confidence

1. Exposure Practice
Exposure helps retrain your brain to see flying as safe, not something to fear or avoid. You can gradually build confidence by confronting your fears in small, manageable steps. For flight anxiety, exposure might look like:

  • Watching videos of takeoff and landing.

  • Listening to in-flight sounds like engine noise or cabin announcements.

  • Visiting an airport to familiarize yourself with the environment.

  • Practicing related fears, like heights or feeling “trapped,” by riding an elevator or a rollercoaster.

2. Mindfulness Techniques
Mindfulness is one of the most powerful tools for managing anxiety. It keeps you grounded in the present moment, helping you stay with your thoughts and feelings instead of running from them. When practiced regularly—especially outside of flying—mindfulness can make it easier to manage the “what-ifs” that fuel anxiety.

For example, if turbulence triggers your anxiety, try this grounding technique:

  • Notice your surroundings by naming things around you that you can see, feel, hear, and smell. Like the sensation of the seat beneath you, the hum of the cabin, the rhythm of your breathing. 

3. Create an In-Flight Toolkit
Everyone handles flight anxiety differently, so finding what works for you is key. Build a personalized toolkit with strategies that help you stay calm and keep your mind occupied. Having a plan in place can make flying feel less intimidating and help you build confidence for your next trip.

Consider including:

  • Affirmations like, “I can handle this moment.”

  • Calming playlists (or even upbeat, motivational music).

  • Noise-canceling headphones to block out triggers.

  • Distractions like puzzles, books, or podcasts.


Reframing Setbacks and Progress

If you’ve had bad experiences with flying before, it’s understandable that the fear feels stronger. But setbacks don’t mean failure. They’re part of the process.

Think of it like getting back into a car after an accident—it’s not easy at first, but avoiding it only makes the fear grow stronger. Similarly, with flying, avoiding the experience reinforces the fear and makes it harder to break free.

Start small. Maybe that’s learning about flight safety or practicing coping skills at home. The longer you wait, the more daunting it may feel—but every small step adds up.

Personally, I’ve struggled with flight anxiety, and one of the most important parts of my progress has been committing to fly regularly. Every flight builds my confidence and provides proof that flying is safe. Small wins, like watching a flight video or booking a short trip, lead to long-term growth.


Encouragement for the Year Ahead

Every flight you take is an opportunity to practice courage and build resilience. 2025 can be the year you reclaim your freedom to travel.

It won’t happen overnight, but just imagine where you could be six months from now if you make tackling your fear of flying a priority. Whether that means visiting family, taking your dream vacation, or exploring new adventures, it’s absolutely within reach. I see it happen with my clients all the time, and I know you can do it too.

Conclusion

This year, take small, intentional steps toward managing flight anxiety. Whether it’s seeking therapy, enrolling in a fear of flying course, or simply starting with exposure practice at home, you don’t have to do this alone.

If you need support, State of Mind Therapy is here to help. We offer online courses and individual therapy designed to help you gain confidence and overcome flight anxiety.

Schedule a free 15-minute phone consultation to learn how we can help you take the first steps toward your travel goals. Click here to schedule today.